Thursday, June 4, 2020

If We All Love Reading So Much, How Can We Get Back Into Reading? Pt. 2

Welcome back! Here are some of my tips for how to ease back into reading for fun again:


Do’s:

  • Reread stuff you loved when you were younger, whether that’s from childhood or high school English class. I first read To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee in junior high and it blew my mind when I reread it again in 2015. I’m probably due for another reading soon.

  • Read a book that was the source material for a movie or TV show that you love. A few books are almost exactly the same, line for line (e.g., Normal People by Sally Rooney), but the vast majority range from somewhat to largely different. For Timothee Chalamet fans (you know who you are), I recommend Call Me by Your Name by Andre Aciman and Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. 

  • Read a graphic novel or comic book. You’ll fly through it in 1-2 hours and feel accomplished. I recommend all of Lucy Knisley’s graphic memoirs and the delightful college-set British comic series Giant Days by John Allison.

  • Read YA. It’s easy, fast, and fun. My favorite YA rom-com is probably When Dimple Met Rishi by Sandhya Menon, about two South Asian nerds falling in love and yes, it is as cute and fluffy as it sounds.

  • Once you’ve read a good book, read…

    • The sequel or rest of the series: No, the sequel is probably not as good as the first book but hey, it’s the same universe. 

    • Everything else that that author has written: This is a “duh” statement. I, for example, have read everything else that Sandhya Menon has written. 

Don’ts: 

  • Don’t pressure yourself to conquer War and Peace or whatever you think adults “should” be reading. Skip the “100 Books You Need to Read Before You Die” lists. 

    • However, do take up your friends’ recommendations. As I type this I realize this sounds like a thinly veiled statement to read what I’ve just listed, but in fact I write this because I finally took up Irene on her recommendation of The Idiot by Elif Batuman and of course, it was great.

  • Don’t force yourself to keep reading something you’re not loving. Move on. Yes, we all want to seem like the kind of person who reads Zadie Smith because she is so cool and smart. But ultimately no one’s going to know or care that you barely got 10% of the way into On Beauty and dropped it. (This is me exactly, but if this is also you, I recommend her novel Swing Time which is way easier to get into and her short story “Joy,” one of my favorite pieces of writing which I try to push on all of my friends at least once a year.)

Final reminder:
  • Once you’ve picked out your book and have it in hand, tell yourself “I will not check Twitter/Instagram/whatever until I have read 10 pages of this book.” Ideally, you will have stored your phone in a different room altogether but if you read ebooks on your phone like I do, you’ll have to be disciplined. Most likely, after 10 pages you will be sucked into the book and you will not remember that you have a body, much less a social networking account. 


Go forth and enjoy your read!

Wednesday, June 3, 2020

If We All Love Reading So Much, Why Aren’t We Actually Reading? Pt. 1

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My whole life, I’ve identified as a reader and a lover of books (the term “bookworm” is a bit dorky for me). Back in elementary school, I used to check out 14 books from the library every week. Every night after finishing my homework I’d sit on my purple bean bag and read until my mom inevitably yelled at me to go to bed. Still today I love bookstores, libraries, the smell and feel of new books,
bookstagrams… So why the f--- haven’t I cracked open a book in ages??!

To be fair to myself, I do read more than the average American adult. According to this random article I googled that I don’t entirely trust, the typical (median) adult in the U.S. reads 4 books per year, and my yearly Goodreads stats will prove I am beating that soundly, some years more than others. But if you were to take a deep dive into the books I’ve logged, you would see it's primarily made up of YA fiction and graphic novels for various ages. There’s nothing wrong with YA or graphic novels, and many of them are remarkably innovative and informative, but to be quite frank I am an adult whose reading level is much higher than the intended audiences of most of these books. I am not being challenged, nor am I even trying to challenge myself. 


Beyond the actual content of the books, there’s this nagging feeling that I wish I were reading more and maybe I should be reading more, but instead I’m trolling the internet, and that’s what bothers me. So here are some possible explanations I’ve come up with for why I’m not reading as much as I wish I were, and whether I actually buy these reasons:


  • We read a lot for work (maybe scientific articles for me, maybe legal documents for you) and so our brains can’t deal with any more reading comprehension

    • I don’t know what the science behind this would be… fatigue? 

  • Trouble focusing/concentrating due to stress or anxiety

    • I believe it ✓

  • Competing responsibilities such as school/work

    • I don’t entirely buy this because this doesn’t explain why I’m still watching a whole bunch of stuff and on Twitter all the time

  • We are so used to instant gratification from social media that we become reluctant to take on anything that takes a modicum of effort (i.e., why read when our fun fun phone is right there).

    • I believe it ✓

  • Competing fun stuff. We’re in the golden age of streaming 

    • True… When we were kids we had to go out and rent videos or wait for the TV to run something interesting; we couldn’t just watch *anything in the world* at a moment’s notice. 

  • We don’t actually like reading that much. Yeah, I don’t really believe it either.

  • I actually am reading a ton; I’m just not reading “serious” LIT-rah-ture so it feels like I’m not really reading. There’s a lot of pressure to read serious adult literature so if you enjoy light fun stuff like YA or graphic novels you feel shame about it, just like I shamed myself a few paragraphs ago.

    • Clearly I’m doing some mental gymnastics as far as what qualifies as what’s “worth” reading and, per usual, I need to chill. 


Stay tuned for part 2, in which I generate some use value beyond me complaining and provide some solutions for overcoming these problems!

Tuesday, June 2, 2020

Blackout Tuesday

blacklivesmatter.com
I was going to post something entirely different today, just something fun and light I’d written a while ago as mentioned in my post yesterday. But based on conversations I've had with various people today, it feels especially wrong to not acknowledge the very emotionally exhausting current events of the last week or so. We’ve only just started figuring out how to cope effectively with the COVID-19 pandemic and then of course, we’re being reminded that we’ve been living in a racism pandemic for a long time now. 

A question I’ve been grappling with today is, what does it mean to be a good ally? Posting some black squares on social media is not it. Solidarity and awareness are great, of course, but the gesture feels empty, like virtue signaling. I don’t have anything intelligent to contribute to the discourse, so I'll leave you with this 2016 piece by Roxane Gay that argues that "allyship" is not enough.

Here’s to looking inward and continuing the journeys of bettering ourselves and our world.

Monday, June 1, 2020

Return from the Dead

Back from the dead,
like this guy (Photo source)
Hello, nonexistent audience of a long-abandoned blog. I’ve decided to resurrect PopPen temporarily and post some of my pop culture ramblings here. You may be asking questions like Why? Well, it’s Day 80-ish of quarantine and I’m intensely bored. And as it turns out, I have a strong desire to create (yes, this is the most pretentious thing I’ve ever said). You may also be asking questions like If you were so bored, why didn’t you resume this earlier? The answer to that is simply, I didn’t think of it earlier; what do you want from me?!

To be fair, the idea must have been stewing in the back of my brain because a few weeks ago, I sent Irene this Atlantic review of Sally Rooney’s fantastic book Normal People with the comment, “I don't know why I'm only realizing it now, but this article made me realize you can write book reports for a living.” And I’ve long wanted to start an “articles club” (h/t Cup of Jo) but either a) no one wanted to do this with me 😢 or equally likely, b) I forgot to actually ask friends whether they wanted to do this with me. So here I am, with the intent to post my opinions on the internet for absolutely no one to read. And good! Pressure’s off to write anything of quality.

In the next few days I will be posting content such as:

Topic suggestions are extremely welcome!

Saturday, March 21, 2020

Bingeable TV Shows (of the last two years)

Hey friends, hope quarantine is going well for you all. Lately with all this free time on my hands, I've found that my go-to picks for streaming are TV shows with only 1-2 seasons of 6-10 episodes each. They're perfect for when you don't have the attention span for a full movie, but you're also reluctant to sit down and watch a longer-running TV series because you'll get caught up in that whole "next episode... next episode" downward spiral. With these shorter shows, you can binge across 1-2 nights and then move on with your life.

Thanks to streaming platforms, we have more choices now than ever. (Have you all noticed that the phrase "now more than ever" is being overused now more than ever?) So, here are some of my picks for new shows that have come out in the last two years (2019-2020), listed in chronological order of their release dates:

  • Sex Education - Netflix: 2 seasons, 16 episodes
    • This show about British teens and their various sexual problems is quite funny and heartfelt. Their outfits are largely terrible.
    • Bonus: The cast is charming and hilarious in interviews, especially Ncuti Gatwa and Emma Mackey, who play the best friend and love interest of Asa Butterfield's protagonist, respectively, and love to rag on poor, pale Asa.
  • Russian Doll - Netflix: 1 season, 8 episodes
    • This show low-key blew my mind. In a non-Fleabag year I think it could have done well with awards but, what can you do. I actually want to revisit this sometime to pick up on all the clues and Easter eggs I might have missed before.
  • Pen15 - Hulu: 1 season, 10 episodes
    • Two 30-somethings play themselves as 13-year-old 7th grade outcasts, surrounded by actual 13 year-olds. I don't know how they made this work, but it does. Get ready for some mild cringe (nowhere near the levels in the movie Eighth Grade, fyi).
  • Shrill - Hulu: 2 seasons, 14 episodes
    • This show works best as a fun showcase for Aidy Bryant, although it's maybe not as edgy as it could/should be. 
    • Bonus: The soundtrack is awesome. Two stand-out songs for me are "How To Love" by Lil Wayne and "Goodie Bag" by Still Woozy, both from the S1 episode "Pencil" (featuring my favorite love interest of the show, Lamar! I pray he gets more airtime in S3, assuming it gets renewed).
  • Ramy - Hulu: 1 season, 10 episodes
    • This show about a millennial Muslim-American fuckboy-type of guy is a little uneven but definitely depicts a unique perspective that we don't get to see much of on TV. Best episodes are the ones centered on Ramy's sister and mother (ep. 6 and 7, respectively).
    • Bonus: S2 coming in May! 
  • Tuca & Bertie - Netflix: 1 season, 10 episodes
    • From the designer of Bojack Horseman, this show was never quite as funny as I wanted it to be, but the art and voice work of Ali Wong and Tiffany Haddish were pretty great.
  • Looking For Alaska - Hulu: 1 season, 8 episodes
    • If you've read the book or any other of John Green's novels, you'll like this miniseries. Be prepared to cry a lot in the last two episodes, though. Like, a LOT.
  • High Fidelity - Hulu: 1 season, 10 episodes
    • Did we really need a gender-bent version of the 2000 John Cusack movie? I honestly don't know why anyone thought to develop this, but it is pretty enjoyable and rests largely on Zoë Kravitz's capable shoulders.
  • I Am Not Okay With This - Netflix: 1 season, 7 episodes
    • This is a very cool take on a superhero origin story. The teen protagonist is prone to angsty outbursts and not communicating with others, but there's real depth in her backstory and I can't wait to see what comes next (assuming it gets renewed!).
  • Never Have I Ever - Netflix: 1 season, 10 episodes [Added 5/1/20]
    • I stayed up until 2 am watching all of this in 1 night. It is a goddamn delight. I relished in all the diversity and may have cried just about every episode. 
  • Normal People - Hulu: 1 season, 12 episodes [Added 5/15/20]
    • If you're looking for a horny yet highbrow quarantine show that is equal parts moving and erotic, boy have I got the show for you. I recommend watching no more than 3 episodes at a time, because they are quite emotionally intense, and for the love of god, do not watch this with your family.
BONUS: The following TV shows did not start in the last two years but had some terrific second seasons released in the last two years. Starting with, of course:
  • Fleabag, Amazon Prime (2016-2019): 2 seasons, 12 episodes
    • Honestly if you haven't seen Fleabag already are we even friends?? Shout-out to Irene who doesn't have Amazon Prime but keeps promising me to watch this.
  • Derry Girls, Netflix (2018-2019): 2 seasons, 12 episodes
    • IMO this show is hysterical. I love these high school losers who manage to get into the stupidest shenanigans, with the backdrop of the Northern Ireland conflict in the late '90s. Teens be teening.
  •  Barry, HBO (2018-2019): 2 seasons, 16 episodes [Added 4/10/20]